Mama objašnjava zašto je ponosna što je loša majka!

Mama objašnjava zašto je ponosna što je loša majka

Sramoćenje mame – kada se žene kritikuju zbog načina na koji odlučuju kako da vaspitavaju svoju djecu – postala je veoma česta svakodnevna pojava.

Sve mame su mete: od onih koje rade ili onih koje ne rade, one koje su dojile ili nisu, one koje spavaju sa svojim bebama ili ne…  Nažalost, većina žena se u određenom trenutku suočila s osuđivanjem svog izbora vaspitanja djeteta.  Jedna mama kaže da je ovo potrebno u potpunosti zaustaviti.

Sia Cooper, majka dva djeteta i profesionalni fitnes trener, na svom Instagram profilu kroz objave navodi sve primjere za koje se sve ona ili druge majke osuđuju svakodnevno.

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“Da sam dobila novčić za svaki put kada me nazovu” lošom mamom “, bila bih veoma bogata!”, piše Sia.

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If I had a nickel for every time I’ve been called a “bad mom,” I would be soooo rich! It seems almost impossible to be a textbook or politically correct good mom these days because everywhere you turn another mom is judging your parenting choices. Am I right? I’ve been called a bad mom for: Workout out during pregnancy. Working out while having kids… period. For caring about my looks and health. Working out in Target. Using canned goods and plastic crockpot liners. Having tattoos and piercings. Enjoying wine every now and then. For letting my kids use technology. For letting my kids have sugar and happy meals occasionally. For not “covering up” around my kids. For running a full time business from home. For co-sleeping with my kids. For collecting sports cars and motorcycles aka having a hobby. For taking time for myself. For having abs. I’ve learned that the true “bad moms” out there are the ones who constantly tear other moms down by judging them. Those moms are the ones who are truly insecure and have strong feelings of inadequacy because why else would they do that? Misery loves company. There’s no one right way to parent or to be a mom. We all are running in the same race and doing the best that we can. Motherhood is not a one size fits all-what works for one family may not work for the next. So who are we to judge another mom’s choices or reasoning? Being a mom is hard enough and if all the following make me a “bad mom” then I’ll gladly wear it proudly! Here’s to all the bad moms out there. Follow @badmomconfessions to submit a confession or read other anonymous mothers’ spills! @todayshow @goodmorningamerica @theviewabc @thetalkcbs @theellenshow

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“Nazivali su me lošom i neodgovornom mamom jer sam: vježbala tokom trudnoće, te zbog načina moje ishrane, kako izgledam, zbog tetovaža i pirsinga, te zato što uživam u vinu skoro svaki dan…”

Pored toga, kaže kako je bila osramoćena više puta zato što je pustila djecu da koriste tehnologiju i jedu šećer, te radio posao “od kuće” i izlazi naveče – tačnije kako smije da ima vrijeme “samo za sebe”

“Ne postoji jedan pravi put da budete roditelj ili mama”, objašnjava ona.

“Svi mi trčimo u istu trku i radimo najbolje što možemo i znamo. Majčinstvo nije jedna veličina koja odgovara svima jednako – ono što radi kod jedne porodice možda neće imati efekta u drugoj.

“Biti mama je dovoljno teško samo po sebi, i ako me sve što sljedeće uradim čini lošom mamom onda ću to ponosno nositi sa sobom!” 

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